Saturday, July 24, 2010

I'm EXTREMELY Disapointed...

Okay, just as a forewarning, this is a rant-post. So... let's get this started, shall we?

     So what, exactly, am I disappointed at now? The Gay community, that's what. I can't help it, and after you read through the entire post, you'll understand why.

     It all began last night when I was blog surfing to try to find some more people to follow. I actually had an aim. I wanted to meet other every-day gay guys so that I could mingle. Don't get me wrong girls, you all are FANTASTIC company... but I need some testosterone. I have very few guy friends, and I've made it a goal to find some... specifically gay guy friends. I want to have someone from my own background that I can share my everyday experiences with (and Tim doesn't count.)

     So, having absolutely NO luck with the "next blog" button, I went to Google and typed in: gay personal blogs. And here are the people I found...

1) Mr. Sex Appeal
2) The Raging Inferno
3) The Marketeer

     I have a little something to say to each and every one of you guys...
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 Mr. Sex Appeal

     You get blasted, simply because your were at the top of the search results, mister. I am extremely disappointed in the way that you make blogs simply to show gay adult material. This doesn't add ANY good to the already preconceived notion that gays are just sexually promiscuous horn-dogs. You are one of the causes for a very noted, very nasty stereotype.
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The Raging Inferno
     Yes Inferno, sir, you have even been blacklisted. I understand that you are proud of who you are. I get that. But must you flaunt it? Must you harp the SAME message to everyone you meet? I'm so tired of hearing the "loud and proud". Can we not just have mild-voiced and content? Perhaps your blogs are encouraging to some, but you do absolutely nothing for me, or the stereotype that all gays are overly-expressive and obnoxious with their... out-ness... if that's even a word...
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The Marketeer
      I suppose I get why you exist. You are here to make money.. and that makes me dislike you automatically. You clutter the blog-world with sites that are dedicated to certain demographics and most of the time you do it in the most boring ways possible. Furthermore, I am offended that you think that ALL gay people are interested in the same products. Not all of us wear v-necks and work in salons (no offense to those who do). Some of us would rather shop for camping materials and everyday household appliances. To suggest hat a product is gay is offensive to me. Plus, I'm tired of accidentally running into blog/infomercials.

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     I suppose my biggest letdown was that, I searched and searched for normal, every-day gay bloggers but found not one. I just wish I could meet someone that hasn't let being gay become the biggest factor in their life, you know what I mean? It's rather aggravating.

2 comments:

  1. There should be more bloggers like you. If you're disappointed about the gay blogs you've come across so far, I bet you're not alone. So keep writing, because people that feel the same way will come across your blog and think you're a breath of fresh air.

    Also, these pics are amazing, I LOVE them!

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  2. Thanks, that is very inspiring!

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